Amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana anikezela imingeni ekhethekileyo kuyo yonke indawo yokukhulisa abantwana - kwaye uqeqesho lweembiza alukho.Nangona amantombazana namakhwenkwe ethatha ixesha elilinganayo lokuqeqesha (iinyanga ezisibhozo ngokomndilili), mininzi iyantlukwano phakathiamakhwenkwekwayeamantombazanakuyo yonke le nkqubo.UJan Faull, umcebisi wePull-Ups® Potty Training, wabelana ngeengcebiso zokunceda inenekazi lakho elincinane okanye inkwenkwe yoqeqesho lwembiza.
I-1) I-Slow kwaye iZinzile ihlala iphumelela
Kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na isini, abantwana baqhubela phambili kwinkqubo yokuqeqesha i-potty ngesantya sabo nangendlela yabo.Ngenxa yoko, sikhumbuza abazali ukuba bavumele umntwana wabo ukuba abeke isantya se-potty kunye neprotocol.
“Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba abantwana abadli ngakubambisa xa bechama okanye bechama ngaxeshanye.”Ukuba umntwana unomdla wokufunda, mvumele anikele ingqalelo kuloo msebenzi.Kuya kuba lula kakhulu kumntwana wakho ukuba aphumelele isakhono esilandelayo sembiza ngokuzithemba okuzuzwe kwimpumelelo yangaphambili. "
2) Njengomzali, njengoMntwana
Abantwana balinganisa kakhulu.Yindlela elula yokuba bafunde iikhonsepthi ezintsha, kuquka nokusebenzisa imbiza.
“Nangona umzekelo walo naluphi na uhlobo uya kunceda abantwana bafunde indlela yokuqeqesha ngeembiza, abantwana badla ngokufunda kakuhle ngokubukela abantu abangumzekelo owenziwe njengabo—amakhwenkwe abukele ootata bawo namantombazana ejonge oomama.”Ukuba umama okanye utata akakwazi ukubakho ukuze ancede, umakazi okanye umalume, okanye umzala omdala, unokungenelela. Ukufuna ukufana nenkwenkwe okanye intombazana ekhulileyo abayijongileyo kudla ngokuba yeyona nto ifunekayo kumntwana oselula. ube ngumpetha weembiza.”
3) Ukuhlala vs. Ukuma ngamakhwenkwe
Ngenxa yokuba ukuqeqeshwa ngeembiza kunye namakhwenkwe kubandakanya ukuhlala nokuma, kusenokudida ukuba nguwuphi umsebenzi ofanele ufundiswe kuqala.Sicebisa ukuba usebenzise izikhokelo zomntwana wakho ukumisela ukuba yeyiphi inkqubela eyenza eyona ngqiqo kumntwana wakho omncinci owahlukileyo.
“Amanye amakhwenkwe afunda ukuchama kuqala ngokuhlala aze emva koko eme, ngoxa amanye efuna ukuma kwasekuqaleni nje kokuziqeqesha ngeembiza.’” “Kubalulekile xa uqeqesha unyana wakho ukuba asebenzise ukutya okuziinkozo okugungxulwayo, njengokutya okuziinkozo kwindlu yangasese, ukuze afundise. ukuze ajolise ngokuchanekileyo.”
Nangona uqeqesho luhluke phakathi kwamakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana, ukuhlala unethemba kunye nesineke sisitshixo sempumelelo kumzali ngamnye kunye nomqeqeshi weembiza.
Ixesha lokuposa: Dec-19-2023