Ukuqeqesha ngembiza ngokuqhelekileyo kulula ekhaya.Kodwa ekugqibeleni, kuya kufuneka uthathe umntwana wakho ohambahambayo wokuqeqesha imbiza ukuba enze imisebenzi, kwindawo yokutyela, ukutyelela abahlobo okanye ukuthatha uhambo okanye iholide.Ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana wakho ukhululekile xa esebenzisa izindlu zangasese kwiindawo angaziqhelanga, njengezindlu zangasese zikawonke-wonke okanye kwizindlu zabanye abantu linyathelo elibalulekileyo kuhambo lwabo loqeqesho ngeembiza.Kodwa ngendlela ecingayo xa usendleleni, unokwenza amava angabinoxinzelelo kumntu wonke!
Ukuqala inkqubo yoqeqesho lweembiza kunokubonakala kunzima ekuqaleni kubazali nakubantwana.Yongeza kumagumbi okuhlambela angaqhelekanga, izindlu zangasese ezilingana nabantu abadala, kunye nemeko enganeno kune-imnandi yamagumbi okuhlambela amaninzi kawonke-wonke kunye noqeqesho lweembiza kunokuziva ngathi ngumqobo omkhulu ukoyiswa.Kodwa awukwazi ukuvumela uqeqesho lwamanzi lubophe kwikhaya lakho, kwaye abantwana ekugqibeleni kufuneka bafunde ukuqeqeshwa kwamanzi ngelixa bephuma kwaye malunga.
Yenza isicwangciso phambi kokuba umke ekhaya
UVicki Lansky, ingcali yoqeqesho lukamama kunye neembiza ucebisa abazali ukuba babe nesicwangciso sembiza ngaphambi kokuba baphume.
Okokuqala, yazi ukuba aphi amagumbi okuhlambela kwindawo nganye oya kuyo ukuba ufuna ukuya kwenye ngokukhawuleza.Zama ukwenza umdlalo ukubona ukuba ngubani obona imbiza kuqala - aniyi kuthi nobabini nifunde ukuba iphi na igumbi lokuhlambela, niya kuhoya naziphi na iimfuno zangoku zamanzi phambi kokuba niqale ukuthenga, ukuyokwenza imisebenzi okanye ukutyelela.Olu phendlo lwembiza luya kubaqinisekisa ngakumbi abantwana abanobuntu obulumkileyo okanye abaneentloni.Abanye abantwana bayamangaliswa xa befumanisa ukuba iindawo ezifana nevenkile yokutya okanye indlu kaMakhulu ZIKWAZI nezindlu zangasese.Basenokuba babecinga ukuba iimbiza ezazisendlwini yakho yayizezodwa ehlabathini lonke!
U-Lansky ukwathi eyona ndlela ingcono yokuba umntwana afake imbiza xa ehamba kukutyala imali kwisihlalo esiphathwayo, esisongwayo sembiza esilingana nendlu yangasese elingana nabantu abadala.Azibizi kakhulu kwaye zenziwe ngeplastiki, ezi zihlalo zigoqeke zincinci ngokwaneleyo ukuba zingene kwisipaji okanye kwenye ingxowa.Zilula ukuzisula kwaye zinokusetyenziswa naphi na.Zama ukuyisebenzisa kwindlu yangasese ekhaya amaxesha ambalwa ngaphambi kokuba uyisebenzise kwindawo ongayiqhelanga.Isenokuba ngumbono olungileyo ukuthenga isihlalo sembiza yemoto.
Qhubeka Nokhuthazo
Ukuba sendleleni, kwinqwelomoya okanye kwindawo ongayiqhelanga kunokubangela uxinzelelo nangaliphi na ixesha unabantwana abancinci.Kodwa ngomntwana kuhambo loqeqesho lwembiza, kungaphezulu.Ukuba uyayenza, ziphe umqolo wakho.Kwaye isihlanu esiphezulu.Kwaye ukuwola.Ngokunyanisekileyo.Ikufanele.
Emva koko, yabelana ngaloo mandla alungileyo kunye nomntwana wakho omncinci.Banokusebenzisa inkuthazo encinci nabo, kwaye oko kubandakanya ukubhiyozela impumelelo encinci kunye nokungaxhonywa kwimingeni.Ukungaguquguquki kunye nokuthembeka ngelixa ukude nekhaya kunokuhamba indlela ende ekuncedeni nobabini ukuba nibe nohambo olonwabileyo.
lYiza neepotty ozithandayo.Ukuba umntwana wakho unencwadi yembiza okanye into yokudlala ayithandayo, yiphose ebhegini yakho.
lGcina umkhondo wempumelelo.Unayo itshati yesitikha ekhaya?Yiza nencwadana yokubhalela ukuze ubhale ukuba zingaphi izincamathelisi onokuzongeza xa ubuyela ekhaya.Okanye, yenza incwadi yesitikha ehambayo ukuze ubongeze ekuhambeni.
Isicwangciso esiqinileyo sinokwenza wonke umntu akhululeke ngakumbi.Khumbula, kwakhona, ukuba isimo sengqondo esikhululekile malunga nokuqeqeshwa kweembiza kuhamba ixesha elide.Niza kudlula oku kunye.Kwaye ngenye imini kungekudala, wena kunye nomntwana wakho ohambahambayo niza kuhamba kwaye nikhangele ngaphandle kokukhathazeka kwengqondo
Ixesha lokuposa: Feb-28-2024