Abayibizi ngoqeqesho lwamanzi, kodwa obu buchule butsha bufezekisa umphumo ofanayo.Iintsana ezineminyaka engama-7 ubudala zisebenzisa i-potty kwaye abazali balahla i-diapers.
I-Early Show intatheli yezokwelapha uDkt Emily Senay waya kwindlu yaseTwelker apho umnxeba wendalo uhlebeza nje endlebeni: "Ssss-ssss."
Xa uKate Twelker ecinga ukuba usana lwakhe oluneenyanga ezi-4 ubudala uLucia kufuneka luhambe, ulungile apho kuye ngembiza.
“Akahambi ukuba akafuni,” utshilo uTwelker.Kodwa, ngokusisiseko, imxelela ukuba 'Heyi, kulungile ngoku, ungakhululeka.'
Kodwa musa ukubiza ngokuthi "ukuqeqeshwa kweembiza," kubiza "ukuphelisa unxibelelwano."Ukususela ngosuku lokuqala, abazali baqhelanisa iintsana zabo ekuphenduleni isidingo sokuhamba.
“Wayelusizi ngalo lonke ixesha echama kwidiaper yakhe,” utshilo uTwelker."Kum, imenza onwabe ngakumbi, kwaye ikhulisa ubudlelwane phakathi kwethu - elo nqanaba lingaphezulu lokuthembela."
UChristine Gross-Loh ukhulise amakhwenkwe akhe amabini esebenzisa ubuchule, kwaye usebenza njengomcebisi kwiWebhsayithi ebizwa ngokuba yi-diaperfreebaby.org ukunceda abanye abazali baqonde kwaye baphendule kwiimfuno zendalo zomntwana wabo.
“Ngandlel’ ithile umntwana wakho uyakufundisa,” utshilo uGross-Loh."Kukuthetha ngemfuno esisiseko umntwana wakho ayivakalisa kuwe ukususela ekuzalweni kwakhe. Abafuni ukuzingcolisa; bayalazi ixesha abafuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese. grimace kwaye, njengomzali, ukuba uqala ukuthobela le miqondiso, njengoko ujonga kwisidingo somntwana wakho sokutya okanye ukulala, ngoko ufunda xa kufuneka aye kwindlu yangasese. "
Ezinye iingcali aziqinisekanga.
UGqr. Chris Lucas weZiko Lofundo Lwabantwana leYunivesithi yaseNew York uthi, “Ngaphambi kweenyanga ezili-18, abantwana abaqondi enoba isinyi sabo sizele, enoba bavalekile, enoba bamanzi, yaye bayakwazi ukunxibelelana nabazali ngezo zinto. zilinganiselwe."
Kodwa uTwelker uthemba ukuba izibonelelo ziya kuhamba ngaphaya koqeqesho lwamanzi.
“Xa ekwazi ukuzihambela, ngethemba lokuba, uya kwazi ukuba unokuhamba aye ebhodweni yedwa,” utshilo."Kum, nayiphi na indlela endinokuthi ndinxibelelane ngayo naye, nayiphi na indlela eyongezelelweyo, ithetha ukuba siza kuba nobudlelwane obungcono, ngoku nakwixesha elizayo."
Okwangoku kukho amaqela angama-35 "okuphelisa uNxibelelwano" kwilizwe lonke aququzelelwe yi-diaperfreebaby.org.La maqela adibanisa oomama ababelana ngolwazi kunye nokuxhasana kumzamo wokuba nomntwana ongenama-diaper.
Kweli hlabathi likhuphisana ngokwandayo lokuba ngumzali, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kufumana abo babona oku njengenye yeendlela zokufumana abancinci ngaphambi kwepakethi.Kodwa uGqr. Senay uthi oko kuya kuba kuchasene nomoya wento la maqela azama ukuyifeza.Ababeki iminyaka abathi ngayo abantwana kufuneka bangabi nadiaper.Ngokwenyani bathi abantwana nabazali kufuneka banxibelelane kwaye baphendule omnye komnye.
Ngokuphathelele abazali abasebenzayo, abo banyamekela abazali abalandela imiyalelo yabazali ngokuqinisekileyo banokukwenza oku.Kwaye unxibelelwano lokuphelisa lunokuba lixesha.Akuyomfuneko ukuba lonke ixesha.
Ixesha lokuposa: Jan-20-2024